So far, my friend Chad has been the only one with the guts (or maybe time?
) to respond to last night’s blog.
He brings up several good points that, while good, can still be simply resolved by an application of ideas I already put forth; namely, that the government is too involved in our lives.
The first thing Chad said that I’d like to emphasize is
There have to be rules and regulations when it comes to marriage because it’s a union that affects every aspect of your and your spouse’s life and has a lot to do with how we stand in the eyes of our government. Society has to come to a consensus with regard to the regulations because we don’t live in a separation of marriage and state country.
I’m not a scholar on the history of marriage, but I’ve read tidbits here and there. Are you aware that in our country, marriage used to be regulated solely by the churches (duh, right?)? In fact, the government didn’t start getting involved until blacks started intermingling with whites, and then the crazy Mormons came along and wanted to have multiple wives. “Society” couldn’t allow these types of aberrant, destructive behaviors, so laws were put in place to restrict who could marry whom. Then as people loosened up a little bit, rather than outlawing relationships, they flipped it around and began providing benefits to socially-acceptable ones.
Any being with a sense of justice would deem this type of behavior as completely immoral.
So, fast-forward a few hundred years: who is the current socially-unacceptable group desiring recognition? The gays. But since the laws are built in such a way as to condone and even support individuals desiring to be married, an allowance of gay-marriage would essentially mean a government sanction of something that many in the country deem as sinful.
I’m in agreement with everyone out there who doesn’t want the government to condone immoral actions. But the problem isn’t that gay marriage is or could happen, it’s that government is involved in it in the first place! In other words, if the government weren’t involved in the institution of marriage, this entire debate would be a non-issue.
My argument is essentially that the Church, rather than jumping on the anti-gay-marriage bandwagon, should be creating its own bandwagon of “the government is too involved in our lives.” What we are doing to gay people is exactly what other Christian sects did to the Mormons 150 years ago with polygamy. The only difference being that gay marriage is a sin, and polygamy is not.
But then, if you read and fully understand Doctrine and Covenants 134, specifically the verses I pointed out in yesterday’s post, you’ll realize that religious rights and wrongs should not be imposed on others not belonging to your religion.
The second issue with Chad’s response that I’d like to address is
I do think, though, that it is reasonable to be put to popular vote since it has so much to do with how our country functions
There’s this false notion in our country that we’re a democracy. This is actually something I’ve been meaning to blog about for a while. (I have a draft I started in August called “Newsflash: We don’t live in a democracy”…)
Majority doesn’t rule. The Founders of the country wrote in depth in the Federalist papers and probably elsewhere concerning the idea that majority/mob rule is evil, and must not exist in this country. Somehow over the past couple hundred years, we’ve levitated toward it. Article IV, Section 4 of the US Constitution states that we are to have a Republican form of government, and the 10th Amendment guarantees states rights. A long list of atrocities have occurred that have shreded our Constitution… anyway, I’m off on a bit of a tangent here. This is really a topic I’d rather leave for its own blog post later.
The point is that in our form of government, if we’re going by what the Founders wanted (and I think most Mormons hold the Founders in high esteem), they believed that majority rule would be acceptable so long as the rights of the minority were not infringed.
Because marriage is an unalienable right, it applies to all people. The rights of minorities should not be infringed upon simply because the majority doesn’t like what they want. The simple existence of laws regulating who can marry whom doesn’t imply a system that is just; on the contrary, regulating the relations of supposed “free” people is completely immoral and unjust.
As believers of God, the ultimate source of justice in the universe, we should be able to look through the facade of anti-gayness and recognize the true unjustice.